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Creating Connection Through Stories: Jamie’s Journey on My Parent’s in Prison

Creating Connection Through Stories: Jamie’s Journey on My Parent’s in Prison

At Create, we believe that creativity has the power to bridge distance and heal relationships – even in the most difficult circumstances.

My Parent’s in Prison is Create’s unique project working with parents in prison to write and illustrate storybooks for their children. Led by our professional artists, the programme helps participants develop creative writing and visual art skills, while giving them a powerful way to stay connected with their children.

In August 2025, Create artists Carol Topolski and Chloe Cooper delivered a week-long project at HMP Oakwood. Jamie* (48), one of the participants, spoke to us about what the project meant to him.

Artwork from the My Parent's In Prison project. Creating connection through writing and illustrating stories.

Building Skills and Community Through Art

“This week we’ve been creating a character and bringing the story to life. At the beginning, I wasn’t enjoying it, but in the days after, I enjoyed it more and more. It’s something new.”

Jamie, who has previously experience with landscape painting, found a new outlet in collage and storytelling:

“As a landscape artist myself, doing this collage is something different that I’ve learned to add to my skills.”

Just as importantly, the project created a calm and welcoming environment where participants could support each other:

“We’ve connected [well] because of the way we’ve united and come together. We talk with each other, and everybody’s calm and respectful. ”

[Usually] I’m a loner, but even though I’ve had lots of people around me [during the project], my anxiety level is really low.

Jamie, MY PARENT’S IN PRISON Participant

Prison can be a difficult place for mental health, but Jamie found that creative expression helped:

“Here you can relax, come with your ideas. In the future, I’m going to create my own little art thing to help people with their mental health. I want to give back to the community.”

CREATING STORIES FOR CHILDREN

Through the programme, Jamie began writing and illustrating a story for his children – something deeply personal and meaningful:

“I tell [my children] about my story on the phone. I don’t want to give away the story – you can’t spoil the masterpiece! ”

It’s good for them to see that even though you’re in prison, you’re thinking about them, making a book for them.

Jamie, MY PARENT’S IN PRISON Participant

The experience allowed Jamie to reflect on his own childhood and the emotional weight of being a parent while incarcerated:

“When I was a child, I was busy trying to stay alive. That’s why it gets me emotional to think about my kids. Because I never had things like this. You could never think of doing things like this in the ghetto growing up.

“It breaks my heart that I’m supposed to be there looking after them, not in prison. So [here] I can give back something to make them feel proud. If we can do things like this and I don’t feel like a worthless dad, it helps me.”

Artwork from the My Parent's In Prison project. Creating connection through writing and illustrating stories.

Thank You to Our Funders

This programme is possible thanks to the generous support of The Leigh Trust, The Boris Karloff Charitable Foundation, and The Michael and Shirley Hunt Charitable Trust.

With your help, parents like Jamie are building confidence, developing new skills, and strengthening their relationships with their children – all through the transformative power of creativity.

*Names have been changed to protect anonymity

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CREATIVITY AND CARE: BUILDING CONFIDENCE THROUGH CONNECTION

cREATIVITY AND CARE: BUILDING CONFIDENCE THROUGH CONNECTION

Across the UK, nearly 83,000 children are in care, many of whom have faced significant trauma, loss or instability. As these young people navigate complex systems and transitions, opportunities to build confidence, connect with others and develop life skills become vital. At Create, we know the creative arts can play a powerful role in nurturing these outcomes.

This was highlighted through our community:matters project with Brent Council, where children in care and care leavers explored drama and music workshops.

finding belonging through drama

Over three days in April 2025, Create artist Sophie Bentinck Craff led immersive drama workshops with a group of care-experience young people.

One participant, Naomi (18), shared the impact:

“Because I have autism and possibly ADHD, I already have lots of pent-up energy that I can’t get rid of. So having an outlet [in drama workshops] to do that, where it’s safe and controlled, it does help and also it is just really fun.”

From games like Wink Murder to creating characters and costumes, the workshops became a space for creativity, expression and connection.

“We’re all of a similar age, we have these little check-ins [with each other] and it’s good hearing about how other people have been doing.”

Navigating the care system often involves uncertainty and disruption. For Naomi, the chance to meet peers who shared similar experiences was hugely important:

“The system Is very constricting in a way, so these events where we can get together with other people who have gone through similar stuff are really important.”

Being here, [we are] able to have a community.

naomi – community:matters participant

Music as a tool for healing

Meanwhile, Lakshmi (23), a care leaver, took part in six weeks of music workshops led by Create musician Noga Ritter. With no previous experience beyond playing guitar, Lakshmi learnt to write lyrics, harmonise and use music software to record original work:

“[Now] I know about different voices and high and low harmonies. When I’m playing guitar, now I can put my vocals [over] it. [I’ve learnt] that I can create music. I can create lyrics. They don’t need to make sense – you can take a few words, bundle them together and go for it.”

The workshops also provided space to unwind during a stressful exam period:

“It felt amazing and relaxing [to write and record a song]. Recently I had my exams so it was a difficult period but coming here was tension-free. These two hours every week have really helped to calm my mind.”

And, critically, they helped Lakshmi reclaim a long-held creative dream:

“I wanted to sing and dance [when I was young]. And it didn’t [happen] because obviously I had my household situation and there were some financial issues as well. Now I’m looking for a job and I don’t have a chance to do creative [activities].”

“I appreciate that [Create] has done this for me because I have not been able to create since childhood.”

lakshmi – community:matters participant

At Create, we’re proud to work alongside care leavers to co-create spaces where they can express themselves freely, build confidence and find joy in connection.

community:matters Brent Council is funded by John Lyon’s Charity.

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